Do you outsource?...(your worth)



Holy “ah ha’s” bat girl!! This is a good one.


I was listening to the The ManTalks podcast...(yes, we love us some dude wisdom too)...and I heard @connor.beaton talk about how we “Outsource” our self worth.

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Goooooal🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼...what an awesome way to name it!! Cuz Sis, that’s exactly what we do when we attach our worth to something, anything, outside ourself.

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When we say, "Because👉🏼 I AM THIS" (smart, funny, wise, a great mom, a gold star achiever, etc...), and when we say, "Because 👉🏼I HAVE THIS', (status, money, achievement, attention & admiration, social influence, the right shoes, the right hair, the degree, the gold card, etc...),- THEN (only then) I am worthy of love and belonging...

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Do you see it??? Do you see how we outsource our self worth???

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Ok gorgeous oh so worthy of love and belonging Sister...no more outsourcing!!! Your are worthy of love and belonging PERIOD!! Not because who you are or what you do...but because you are here- you have been made from stardust and light and knit into the one infinitely unique you that you are. You’ve been plopped into this world as a beautiful miracle worthy of love & belonging. You were worthy even before your first breath. Don’t give that away...ever!! It’s yours Sis- all yours. Don't outsource your worth. Hold on to it. Celebrate it. Trust it.

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Sending you big kickass kind of love. Cuz ya know what Sister - you are worthy of it!!

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Sandi & Shannon xo






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